Monday, March 25, 2013

HAVE YOU EVER BEEN CHEATED ON? HAVE YOU EVER CHEATED OR THOUGHT ABOUT IT?

HAVE YOU EVER BEEN CHEATED ON? HAVE YOU EVER CHEATED OR THOUGHT ABOUT IT?

I've been driving now for two months....during my driving lessons, I didnt really learn how to reverse so my reversing has been really awkward.
OK, so recently, I was trying to reverse and had an accident- I reversed into a pole. I was so upset. I drove to the Mechanic shop an the panel beater had it repaired. They tried their best to make it like new again. They fixed the damage and repainted the area where the car had been hit. But no matter how they tried to match the paint to the original color, they couldn’t. So every day after that, when I would go to the car, I would always notice that the paint didn’t match. Every time I got into the car I would see that area where the paint was different and it would always remind me of the wreck. And even though the car had been repaired it was never the same again

Later, I found out that because the car had been damaged it was worth less than it was before the damage. I thought about this the other day when I was thinking about people who cheat in relationships. When someone cheats, or you have been cheated on, the relationship is never the same. Sure, you can stay together, work on it and repair it, but every time you take a hard look at your relationship you will be reminded of it. I know many of you reading this understand what I’m talking about. The relationship was once so amazing and new and now has lost its value. You have tried to move on but it’s difficult to trust again. I get it, I SO GET IT!


Tyler Perry's new movie-TEMPTATIONS: Confessions of a Marriage counsellors talks about being tempted, how to forgive, how to move on from it, and also talk about how sometimes the decisions you make when you decide to cheat can stay with you for the rest of your life. This movie is powerful. This movie has the power to save relationships.